Imagine a date that costs less than a cup of coffee, takes place within five miles of home, and leaves you with memories that last a lifetime. Sounds impossible? Dr. Barbara Brock’s Creative Dates: The Why, the How, and the Reason for Now proves it’s not only possible but also incredibly rewarding. This book is a beacon of hope in a world where loneliness is on the rise, offering playful yet profound ways to reconnect with loved ones—and ourselves.
The heart of Creative Dates lies in its origins: a university assignment designed to challenge students to think beyond typical dinner-and-a-movie outings. Over the years, Dr. Brock collected the most inventive and touching date ideas from her students—everything from backyard stargazing to handwritten poetry exchanges. And with everyone – from an outing with your favorite pet, a date with Grandmom, best friend, or roommate to a reunion with former foster parents. These stories, now compiled in her book, are a testament to the power of creativity and human connection.
Structured into four parts, the book first explores The Why—the importance of intentional, low-cost experiences. The How provides practical guidance for planning your own creative dates, while The Reason for Now tackles the urgent need for connection in today’s isolated world. Finally, The Dates section overflows with inspiration, featuring real-life examples that are as entertaining as they are heartwarming.
Dr. Brock’s method is deliberate yet also enjoyable. She emphasises how small, conscious interactions may fight loneliness, cut screen time, and draw people closer. Her gentle and humorous language gives the book the impression of a discussion with a knowledgeable friend. Creative Dates has something for everyone, whether your goal is to meet new people, revive a long-term relationship, or just enjoy your own company.
Unquestionably, the book is appealing everywhere. It addresses adventurers, stay-at-homes, couples, and singles equally to show that great relationships don’t call for grandiose plans—just a little imagination and readiness to deviate from the norm.
Dr. Brock’s message gains power from her decades of instruction and support of “Good Leisure.” Her book is a road map to a more linked, fulfilled life; her conviction on the transforming power of small pleasures is contagious.
If you’re tired of scrolling through life and ready to start living it, Creative Dates is your invitation to a brighter, more connected future. Pick up a copy and discover how five dollars and five miles can change everything.